I've posted about problems with my in-laws before, especially my mil....nasty comments when pregnant will very Ill baby, taking baby out of incubator without permission when he was on minimal handling then lying about it.
Since my baby died my anger towards my in-laws for their selfish behaviour has increased. I haven't seen them for a month since the funeral and have no desire to be around them as all they do is howl and sob about their loss. They were incredibly selfish during an awful time and I just can't let it go.
Am I in the wrong? My husband has spoken to them and says they are in complete disbelief as to why I don't want to be around them. They seem to think that it's ok to sweep it all under the carpet and pretend they did nothing. They can't understand how nasty they have been especially mil who told me I was making her ill and my unborn babys condition worse. I can't forgive the level of selfish self entitled behaviour they have dished out.
My husband is fine with me not having anything to do with them and i have no problem with him being fine with them. But is this really feasable? Anyone else have nothing to do with their in-laws.
My mil has a reputation for being exceptionally bossy and they are all emotionally unstable. We are going to a funeral next week and I know they will be there, she will want to speak to me, to kiss and hug me (arm breaking hugs) and will want to sit with us. but I can't bear them.
Any advice on what to do?
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user1485778793 · 02/10/2017 15:07
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