Is he too young for me?!

[Costaricachica]

NCd else might be outing:
I left my estranged husband at the beginning of this year after discovering a variety of his dirty secrets....cheating/prostitutes / drug taking.

Fast forward 6 months and I'm away with family and my children and I've met someone who I've really clicked with and who seems to find me attravtive too. The thing is he's 25 and I'm early 30s...is he too young?!?!

[Wanderlust1984]

No!!! Go for it girl highfive

[Costaricachica]

Should add...he's not a local waiter at the hotel ha! Both from simillar area in U.K. with lots in common.

[SleepingStandingUp]

Nah its fine. I guess potentially only long term issue might be children of yoive had them / don't want more but that's a way away. Enjoy

[Costaricachica]

I think so too!!! But feel nervous and slightly cringey that I'm 7/8 years older.

[magoria]

7/8 years is nothing.

Enjoy.

[daisymai08]

One of my best mates has a 10 year age difference she's now 40 he's 30 they've been together for years and the most in love couple I know xx

[ThroughThickAndThin01]

Not too young at all.

[EmmaC78]

Totally fine. Go for it ☺

[Costaricachica]

True re kids etc. He knew i had them from the offset. It's unlikely to be more than a fling but just wondering if he'll think I'm "too old"!

[Costaricachica]

Thanks ladies!!

[ScruffyLookingNerfHerder]

Nope

[Costaricachica]

daisymai - that's lovely!X

[PollytheDolly]

Enjoy!

[Kikibanana86]

No 7 /8 years isn't too much at all x

[Costaricachica]

Im trying to....he now knows my age as it was printed.on paper work of sport he was teaching me. He thought I was younger (flattered obviously!).

We're messaging but I'm conscious not to sound too old or 'mum' like! Feel like a teenager

[SleepingStandingUp]

My DH is 7 years older than me. He has dodge taste in music (42 to my 35) but otherwise my difference.

[Fluffypinkpyjamas]

No' of course he's not too young for you. Enjoy! Sounds like you deserve it!

[Costaricachica]

So relieved at the resounding "go for it" response! Thanks girls. I haven't laughed so much in years as I have this week with him. (Mainly at myself for being shit at what he's been teaching me!)

[scrabbler3]

That age gap is irrelevant. It's not much of a gap at all.

[Costaricachica]

I just feel quite hwavy on the life experience with my failed marraige and kids in tow compared to his relative youthful freedom!

[ChopinLisztFinder]

It's about the same age gap as my husband and I, so you can probably guess my opinion on the matter.

I hope you have a lovely time!

[Costaricachica]

I intend to

I wouldn't have believed I could feel like this 6 months ago!

[SandyY2K]

Enjoy it, but don't get overly invested. You deserve some fun.

[Costaricachica]

I'll certainly try!

[Farontothemaddingcrowd]

My bf is ten years younger than me and we are happy. Enjoy!