Hi all,
I'm separated from stbxh since Oct. I have 3dc aged 9,7 and 4. I have met a lovely man who has a nine year old dc. The kids know I'm dating and that I've met someone and are keen to meet him.
He is also keen but not pushing. It's been two months. I never imagined introducing someone so soon tbh. If I read this post I'd say it was too soon, but yet it doesn't feel too soon
He has suggested a casual afternoon in the park with his and my dc. I would be careful not to ramp up his presence in the house etc but from a practical point of view it would be great if they met him because at the moment I feel like I'm hiding him / doing something wrong / sneaking around trying to coordinate see him with them not being home etc.
Thoughts please?
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Introducing new man to kids
whatnextfred · 21/07/2017 07:03
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