I would really appreciate people thoughts on this as want to know I am being fair.
Some background, over the years my dad has always been supportive to my sister and her brood, supporting them financially, free child care and 8 years ago moved to her town and took care of her youngest whilst she she studied and changed career for the umpteenth time. . I could write a book on this. But to the point, my dad has dementia and rapidly going down hill, I try to be supportive but I am not on hand to help. It is so bad I can no longer bring him to my house as it is not safe for him. So I got a text from my sister over the weekend saying he is always asking for money as runs out, we decide to talk on the phone to try and come up with solutions, it turns out that she has taken a £1000 from him as a early inheritance, ( last month) which would be ok but he now has no money, she also started talking about his burial plans and how much it was going to cost, whilst he was sitting there, I was gob smacked how insensitive she was being. I am appalled and have asked her to give his money back, if he wishes to spend money on fags and booze it is his choice, I have also asked to stop talking about his funeral when he is there I I am willing to help as much as I can but pointed out that she has been happy for his help and support all these years and I think is is pay back time. She basically has gone crazy, she can not see she has done anything wrong. She is also saying she is going to tell him that I think her care is crap, this will just confuse him and upset him. She has blocked me after sending me pages of ranting text. She has always been selfish and self entitled but this is a new level. So what would you do now?
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My poor dad
Blossomflowers · 19/06/2017 09:04
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