I have always been a people pleaser. If i can help, I will and often to the detriment of myself. At work and in my private life. My dh takes me for granted. I do all of the family stuff whilst he indulges his many projects. My eldest dd is starting to do the same. I put everyone else's needs and wants before my own so often, I don't even know what I want anymore. I don't know what hobby I would like to do if I had time. I don't know what I like. I feel so sad. How can I change this? I need to do something because I can't go on like this.
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Has anyone 'reclaimed' themselves after realising they've neglected themselves?
Whatsername17 · 15/06/2017 12:41
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