Firstly I'm a male - and also a first time poster. Not sure if you want to burn me at the bonfire, but please just take mercy and listen first ;-)
I come wanting help and in desperation of some form of understanding:
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Me: 32 with a mortgage and no kids
GF: 30 but no attachment to me and no kids
So very clinically speaking, no problem as I am on my own and no ties with kids or houses.
We've been together 5 years
About to go away to Cuba for 10 days in the next few weeks
Next month is a wedding up North for her Brother
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I'm so stuck, there's so much !!!!!yness, resentment, bad feeling. I'm so angry, so annoyed, I can't even tell you why. Simillarly she may feel this way.
I'm physically having heart palpatations and feeling unwell with stress and anger at some of the issues between us. If I told you what they were you'd think "Grow up".... just like in any other relationship. IT's nothing big it's just stupid things.
I don't want to go away to her families wedding next month.
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EVEN WORSE IS as part of her birthday present I've booked a surprise trip to Venice which cost around £1200. I don't care much about the money, just the whole thought of not going. The idea of staying at home instead of going way.
What the hell do I do?
Thanks everyone
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Man in need of help - please take mercy :-)
redrabbit29 · 09/06/2017 23:00
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