Hi all,
Right so not sure if I'm over reacting or it's just me,so please be truthful with me on this.
Been with partner 11 years, ima sahm and we have 3dc,and I have dc from previous relationship,my partner works.
I'm feeling really down and alone, he works 8 till 5, when he gets home his dinner is cooked, I do all the housework, all washing, all shopping, all the childcare, as he works Monday to Friday about 10 mins drive from home. So anyway he gets home from work has his tea, then sits down until he wants a shower, he has never bathed any of the dc or put them to bed, and I do mean never not once. He has never cooked a dinner in all the years together. Even when I went through a miscarriage I still stood at the cooker to cook dinner for everyone while in terrible pain and struggling to stand. He never asks how I am, never asks how the dc day was at school, but yet doesn't understand why I don't want to hear about someone he works with. He accuses everyone of having affairs and has something to say about everything, even saying to people that I never looked like this when we're first together believe it or not she was really slim and looked after herself, yet I buy something cheap for myself and he gets in a mood and tells me how did I afford it.
Is it just me, is this normal, I know he works but why doesn't he want to see to his dc just a little bit, even just put them to bed at the weekend when he doesn't work. It's now at the point where the dc tell him they don't like him. My youngest is 4 and she asked me why daddy is horrible to me .
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Am I over reacting
angelinheaven · 30/05/2017 17:09
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