I think I know. I just need to know I am not going mad. I will list the behaviours which make me think he is.
He constantly cheats on me and
then tells me there is something wrong with me if I confront him. I should add this person has Hepatitis C.
He has told me if I leave he will take the children.
He withdraws affection, attention and sex in view of me being cooperative.
He has humiliated in public and in front of people. Although, this does not happen much anymore.
I am completely financially dependant on him.
He has made me borrow money from family members when I did not want to.
He says if I leave he will tell my family all of secrets. I am bisexual and they don't know this. They hate homosexuality.
He seems to enjoy hurting and belittling me.
I am very scared. He has never been physically violent and is fine with the children who are 3 and 1.
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FormerNymphet · 13/05/2017 12:41
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