I posted before Christmas asking for people to help me see the positives of my marriage.
At that point things were bad and had been bad for a considerable amount of time. I was struggling to see the positives or was I just taking the positives for granted??
Anyway, I've spent most of the time since realising that I'm not happy. I want someone to show me love and affection and vice verse.
However, I must (for once in 20 years) be giving off different signals as DH appears to be changing ever so slightly. I haven't said anything and he hasn't seen anything.
I haven't been eating much as really struggling with processing everything. He seems concerned about this.
Today he brought flowers. He NEVER buys flowers. Ever. He even put them in a vase. Total first.
He's kissed me on the forehead (that's the place he normally kisses me goodbye) more times this week than in months. He's made the first touch and pulled me to him for a quick cuddle. He's actually showing caring signs that he hasn't done in forever.
So now I feel like a total cow as I've spent the last 3 weeks deciding in my head that it's over. That I want to split.
I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. Any advice? Or things to consider? Or personal stories?
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MerryRealisation · 13/01/2017 21:35
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