Has anyone had a partner leave them when they were pregnant? Would love if anyone had any advice on what to do , boyfriend of 2 almost 3 years split from me the week after I found out I was pregnant as he claimed he "didn't love me anymore" told me he would 100% be there for me and the baby but hasnt once contacted me , has ignored all scan photos and appointments or hasnt once texted to see how I am , yet is going around telling everyone that were having a baby? Why bother telling people if he's not contacting me, honestly at a loss here as I don't know whether to just keep updating him on the pregnancy whether he replies or not or just try no contact at all, I just find it very hard to let him and his family treat me like this while im pregnant and then I know they'll be all over me when babys here and I just don't agree with that if they're acting like I don't exist when im pregnant ?? Its putting a lot of stress on me and while im not expecting him to constantly text me I would expect even a weekly text to ask how I am or a reply to scan photos to say he's glad everything's healthy but zilch :-( mentally and physically drained over it , it's been a month now since I found out I was pregnant and no contact from him at all im ️only 19 so it's hard enough for me as is , and hearing he is out every weekend with girls etc is just breaking my heart I went to pick up baby ️️bits yesterday and while I was out got a phonecall to say he'd gone off with a girl the night before and she now has his phone which means she can see all the private pictures and messages I had sent him about the pregnancy so that ruined my day out, I know I can't control if he moves on but I was his first girlfriend he was never this kind of person before we broke up. I just wish things were different I actually wake up on Fridays dreading the weekend because I know he will be out and by sunday il have heard a story about him, I just want us to even be civil so we can have a good relationship for our babys sake but he seems to have no interest at all.
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