So my husband has just gone after many years, I thought we were happy. I thought we were soul mates and would be together forever but clearly I was deluded.
I've been crying for three weeks now I'm just trying to sort out the mess, try and get a divorce and wonder why I could have been so blind and stupid for so long.
There are other people involved, not just one.
I will never take him back - there were betrayals and lies I can't forgive.
I have a part time job and my own house but how the hell do you start again in your mid 50's. It's a bloody nightmare.
I was always so smug about my own marriage - more fool me.
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Husband has left me after 21 years
bikerlou · 14/10/2016 21:02
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