I've name changed for this, but I'm currently on Mat leave (unpaid) I have to ask my partner for money (fuel for the car) etc. He only gives me £10 a time for fuel and so obviously doesn't go far! Then he moans saying he gave me £10 a few days ago. He knows my car isn't great on fuel. When we haven't argued and have been getting on fine he's happy to give me money for what I ask for but if we've had a spat or a massive row and I ask him for some fuel money he point blank refuses. Is this like coercive behaviour? I'm currently waiting for an interview next week and have been looking to get back into work then leave him when I have money saved to rent somewhere. He said ages ago he'd give me so much per month but it's never happened. I hate asking for money "all the time" (which is rare apart from fuel or if I need things)
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