Hi I've been in a long distance relationship for four years now. DP lives in Scotland and I'm in London. We love each other very much but can't live together. One reason is because my ex DH pays the rent on the house i live in with out two DS's. Secondly DP is unemployed and cant afford a deposit for a flat in London or somewhere within an hour or so of a train journey.
We see each other every three weeks for about four days, and really enjoy our time together. The problem is that I feel really sick when he has gone back home, i feel unwell for about two days, so much so that I feel like calling the mental health crisis team out. And i have done before now.
When he goes back home and I feel ill - all my problems seem to hit me head on. Problems like financial insecurity especially. I dont know what i want from mumsnetters but tbh each time he leaves i say, that's it it has to end, i can't cope with this , what the F is this all about etc to myself.
Any ideas, something has to change but i dont know what.
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NImom · 14/08/2016 13:05
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