NC as I have a limit to how "open" I want to be with my other name!
Basically DH has a massive sex drive. I originally put it down to the culture he's from that generally they don't have sex before marriage, though he did with a girl maybe 2 times about 5 years before our marriage. So, when we married I was like "ok it's abit new to him" and tried to let him get it out of his system. It was never a problem as such, he won't force or anything just if I kiss him he will get an erection and gets uncomfortable - hence he says he doesn't like to kiss much without anything more because it leaves him uncomfy (he says this in a nice way , not any sort of blackmail!)
Anyway in the early days if we both had a day off, 5 times wasn't unusual. He says he's always been like this and used to have to masterbate a lot. 2.5 years later and he's still much the same - he will do as much as I want or "allow". He can do three times in a row without a break sometimes (it's mutual, pleas don't read this as me being used) but I'm actually now starting to worry maybe something bad is causing this. He has an erection in the night frequently (whilst asleep) and that feeling just doesn't seem to go - I think if I wanted 10 times and instigated it, he would.
Is this just a high sex drive or can it be an indication of a problem? He's doesn't look at porn or act in any sort of Pervy way at all, he's very normal, not like some sort of sex fiend
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anyone else have a DH with a high sex drive ? is this normal?
NCreggo · 09/07/2016 19:46
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