To cut a long story short... I dont fancy my fiance.. The father of my two children... Ive forgotten what i used to fancy about him. And now i just feel like i dont feel any lust towards him. Its making me really sad. I love him.. I dont want to feel this way.
But over the last 3 years hes put on about 3 stone.. And more than that just eats awful food drinks too much alcohol and binges all the time. And its the unhealthy lifestyle he has at the min that realy makes me think urgh!!
Ive told him he needs to sort himself out. Hes not happy with himself being over weight.
But i always pretend my feelings towards him havnt changed and i'll love him whatever.. I dont want to have to tell him i dont fancy him!
I feel really shallow for feeling this way! But im just not attracted to him anymore :-///
What can i do!?!?
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i dont fancy my fiance
adele234 · 04/07/2016 21:52
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