My best friend told be recently that she is having an affair with a married man.
She is also married, I thought happily, but clearly not.
I feel really weird about the whole thing. I don't know what to say to her.
I feel protective of her; I don't want her getting hurt.
I feel sad for her DH. I've never been close to him but he's a decent bloke who loves her.
I feel sorry for the wife of this other bloke, she has kids a similar age to mine. My friend has seen photos of them which totally got my back up, I'd hate that if I was this poor woman.
My friend works closely with this bloke, her job is incredibly important to her, how is she going to deal with things at work?
And really importantly, my friend has mental health issues and at the moment she's all happy and excited, I'm worried that when this all goes to shit, she'll become very ill.
How the hell do I get her to see that this is going go fuck her life up? She doesn't want it to end at the moment, she's too caught up in the excitement and 'romance' of it all.
What do I say?
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My friend is having an affair.
UntilTheCowsComeHome · 15/06/2016 08:53
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