Hi, I'm a new poster but I need some impartial views on something that I recently stumbled across.
I've been seeing someone I met OLD for about 7 months now and things seem to be going well. I'm a little cautious as i have a terrible history with relationships. Anyway earlier this week I went to sign into Facebook on my laptop to search for a old friend someone had reminded me of earlier in the day. The way Facebook is on my laptop is I don't sign out so it just takes me to my homepage automatically.
It seems my boyfriend had been using my laptop (I know about this and I always say he is welcome anytime) and I didn't notice immediately it took me to his account so when I went to type in the search bar his history appeared. I didn't mean to snoop but one name jumped out just by the sheer number of searches, a woman of course!
There have been about 12 over the past 3 months, the most recent being 2 weeks ago, she is not a friend and I can't see any link. Most of the searches are really late at night and there were a cluster that corresponded to when he was away with work for a week. No messages (on FB at least!) as far as I can tell.
Could this be innocent?
I don't want to confront and look like an idiot, I so want to trust him but I spent 20 miserable years with a man I found out later was always looking for "something better" and I swore I would never go there again.
Flame away I know I shouldn't have snooped!!
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Suspicious search history?
whatdoesthismean2 · 09/06/2016 08:56
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.