'D'P left DC and me 8 weeks ago. Circumstances surrounding the whole thing were pretty grim, won't go into detail as I've posted other threads before.
I'm really struggling. I have so much anger. Its worrying me how angry I am. It's occurred to me that a large part of why I am so angry is that he has absolutely no idea of the devastation he has caused. His behaviour since the split has been pretty cruel, insensitive at best.
I'm on the verge of writing him a letter/email explaining the mess he has left behind and why his actions are so dreadful and the effect they have had on me and DC.
On the few occasions I have had to see him, I have ended up getting so upset and anxious, I haven't said any of the things that really need saying. I've also come away being so disappointed that all he's seen is this raging mess when I actually have so many important things to say.
So, is this a good idea, or will I regret it? Has anyone done this before? I'm hoping it will get things off my chest so I can begin to let go of some of this anger. Its not healthy.
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