I never had a problem with porn, infact I enjoyed watching it. But now I don't understand how I feel, me and dh used to watch porn together, I always knew he watched it a lot before we met as he was alone a while. He used to say he never had watched it since we got together because he didn't need it and I thought nothing of it never questioned it etc as I just wasn't fussed if he did or didn't. Then one day I found lots of porn links on our laptop, male porn, female, both I asked him he was rather embarrassed and admitted he watched it very regularly... Then he started watching it when I was sleeping in bed next to him and even went to the toilet hmmm.. When I was pregnant I saw it appear on his phone laptop etc all the time I felt self conscious I suppose. Now 2 years on, he still hides it, he deleted a load of history to hide it so I said to him look you've either been watching porn or it's something more why are you deleting things? I don't get it, it feels like a dirty secret now and it's caused such a wedge. I feel so insecure when I go to work I know he will be home pleasing himself ?! I can't understand how it's come to this, how I feel like this over porn?!
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