I need advice on what to do.. I'm over emotional as 37 weeks pregnant with dc2.
Background: husband had a major gambling issue before we were together. He opened upto me when we had been together for 6 months as he was in a considerable amount of debt. I helped him sort it out and sorted him out a debt management plan. This was 5 & half years ago. Since then we have married and now about to have our 2nd child. Since we moved in together I have always been in charge of all our bills and he transferred me the contribution from his wages.
He also set up his own business 4 years ago which is going very well.
I have always struggling with the fact he might be gambling still but haven't had any proof. Until now...
I am his business accountant, I logged onto the our shared computer system and went to save something in his computer folder, and saw a unnamed document. I opened it and it's his personal bank statement which I have never had access to or seen. I have seen how much he has uploaded onto a gambling site (bet fair) in one month. It was a lot of money. All our bills are still paid as I do those and we have a lot of money in savings as we are applying for a mortgage atm. I'm not conceded about debt I'm heartbroken over the lies he is telling me when he says he isn't gambling.
To try and appear ok with him and show I trust him he went to a casino with his friend and played poker. Now I have no idea whether he was or not.
Technically I snooped so how do I say anything? Help
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found husband is gambling again!
confusedlilly · 04/03/2016 17:56
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