My bf wears a ring he refuses to talk about. It looks like a thick gold wedding band with two diamonds in it. It means an awful lot to him. Because it means a lot to him, it's important to me too. He never ever removes it. He's never been married & I don't think it is an old hand-me-down from a dear old grandad or whatever. All he will tell me is that he promised to never ever speak about it and that a promise is a promise. I think I know where the ring has come from, well I'm guessing. For the time being I don't mind, it's his perogative obviously but I feel a bit cut out. I really really like him & I'm just playing this forward in my head. Say we end up going the distance & are together for years on end, it feels a bit like there's a little 'ghost' hanging around that I'm not privvy to and I feel shut out. What do you think?
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