I'm so torn, please advise me.
I met a younger man, intended as a fling and we started seeing each other and some feelings have developed.
I know that he has a life plan, which involves settling down in a few years an then he wants a big family with a lot of children, which is something I can't giv him.
I have no idea what to do,
On the one hand there is the obvious thing that is likely to happen which is that the relationship will end and he will want to be with someone younger which will of course be a broken heart for me.
On the other hand if the relationship doesn't end and he fell in love with me too I would be asking him to sacrifice a lot surely to make a life with me?
I already have a child so it doesnt matter to me.
What would you do in my situation? Is it best to walk away as soon as possible to avoid any further feelings developing?
Or is life too sort and should you just enjoy today?
And if I choose the latter, how do I protect myself the best way from the pain of the inevitable?
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jezzybuns · 14/02/2016 15:25
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