Long story short.
I have had issues with MIL since falling pregnant with DD 3 years ago. Intrusive behaviour, critical of parenting, assuming, sucks our energy and time, won't listen, rude... etc etc
The final occasion she upset me by interfering in our finances I made it clear to DH that I did not want to spend long periods of time in her company.
Fast forward 12 months and DH and MIL wants us all to go on holiday together. I find her intimidating and overwhelming to the point of feeling sick. I've said no. I know I shouldn't let her affect me the way she does but cannot change the fact. He's mad at me, thinks I need to move on and MIL is all disappointed of course. He thought I'd grow more tolerant of her over time, but the opposite is the truth. I find her a dreadful dreadful woman.
DH is hurting and I can see us separating. Is there a way for our marriage to survive this?
I've read toxic inlaws, followed all the advice and seemingly had DH on board, but time appears to loosen his boundaries and make him forget.
Can we find a way to stay together like this?
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Differing views of MIL. Can we survive this?
boodlekazam · 11/01/2016 20:41
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