Keen to get opinions to settle a dispute amongst a group of friends. The female in question believes her DP is not a cocklodger and we are all just bitter divorcees who think the worst of men. We (the friendship group) clearly object to this and think the DP is a typical cocklodger.
Key facts about our dear friend:
- Age 47
- Very solvent, talking £150k salary minimum consistently.
- Met DP at work
- Moved hundreds of miles with DP to live in a very expensive part of the world. He couldn't have done it without her.
- Been with him 4 years (of which 3.5 have been in this new location).
Key facts about the DP
- Age 35
- Highly intelligent, salary increased significantly since moving to new location, but still earning half what our friend earns.
- Loves money and expensive items/lifestyle.
- Had an EA 2 years into the relationship which lasted 1 month or so. EA was very intense, and he was already making plans to live with this OW.
I know this isn't much to go on, but the last point re the EA is what alarms us. Then when you factor in the whole situation with her being a high earner, it is very very suspicious.