So obviously I don't want to resort to name calling and being outright mean but I'm seriously losing my sanity here! My husband (like many men I'm sure) is impatient and never stops to think or read anything! By this I mean apparently speed limit signs, parking signs, instructions. You name it! My problem is that I'm the one dealing with his shouting and swearing about the washing machine making too much noise, him getting parking fines etc. And we don't have the money to pay for all his mistakes! He got a parking ticket which he swore he wasn't paying because he was allowed to park there, swore blind there was no yellow lines, markings or signs. There was a single yellow line and a bright yellow reflective sign saying no parking mon-sat 8am-6pm right where he parked. In the past two years he has got three speeding fines that he is adamant aren't his fault (because clearly they are someone else's fault???) and resorted in fines of £100 each and six points on his license meaning increase in our car insurance premiums. Then there's the washing machine!!! He fitted it without instructions claiming he knew what he was doing and didn't need them (probably common with men) but he didn't know! This machine was brought by my nan as a present because our old one broke and this close to Xmas we couldn't afford a new one having already done the Xmas shopping. So when I use the machine and it shakes the crap out of my kitchen its obvious something is wrong. He blames the machine, shouting and swearing about it and despite me reading the instructions and asking if he removed the transit bolts he refuses to look at the instructions or sort the machine out. After three days and the machine jumping out of its gap and tearing our lino I pull it out, find the transit bolts that he swore didn't exist and removed them. Luckily the machine now works fine and wasn't damaged by being used with them in. Just the floor. But seriously?! How can I explain to my husband to stop and read and think before doing things without him ripping my head off and getting in a strop over it? We don't have the money for him to keep breaking everything and getting fines for not looking at signs!
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jessebuni · 12/11/2015 08:41
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