My first post. Please be gentle...
I've been with my fiance for almost ten years now. We've never lived together, I live on my own and can't afford to have him live with me. He works part-time (15 hours a week) and even before he got this job, he said that he only ever wants to work part-time. That would be okay if it was a well paid job but it's not. He has said before that if we moved in together that he could pay for broadband and a couple of other things, I could pay for rent, council tax, bills... wtf.
I've talked to him several times about what I want for the future, asked him what he wants. He says he wants a house, wedding, kids, to travel etc. Yet when I say that we'll need to earn more (I'm actually saying he will tbh), he goes in a huff.
I'd just really like to get some opinions from people who don't know me or my fiance. What would you do in this situation?
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I'd love some advice...
anotherfakename · 06/11/2015 20:40
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