Advice needed please.
I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months. When we got together she was also dating another guy which she finished with and started a relationship with me.
My problem is that everytime we fall out she contacts this other guy. We broke up for 4 weeks about 3 months ago in which she went out with this guy and slept with him. I accepted this as we weren't together but just recently we broke up for 2 weeks and once again she contacted this guy and arranged another date, she didn't go on this date as we got back together and is always truthful with me.
I'm confused, does she love me, does she like this other guy, does she want to be with this other guy,should I leave her, should I contact this guy myself as he doesn't know that when she contacts him we have literally just broken up, do I accept it as when she does we're not together. I have so many questions and I'm so confused and devastated over it to be honest? I feel as though this other guy is always there now and I can't bear it.
I love my girlfriend with all my heart and I don't want to lose her but at the same time I can't be a fool. We do have our problems but we also have so much going right for us so please don't think this is a terrible relationship as it's not.
Someone please help me, I'd ask friends and family for help but I can't bear for anyone to know about this.
Thank you.
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Girlfriend always contacts the same guy when we break up/argue.
Confused7281 · 22/07/2015 11:10
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