so yesterday, my husband opens up about an issue regarding a female college - she is causing problems for him regarding an meeting she wasn't invited too, he told her to do one for picking on him and he agrees with me saying she is 'one of those'.
Yesterday evening, he comes home, says he has worked things out with her and starts accusing me of being a bitch about her on the phone where he was the one moaning about her, and suddenly 4 hours later he is defending her.
This is a women, that two years ago, I saw him flirting with when we were supposingly on a date night. He ran over to her whispered in her ear about something then came back to our table. He then spoke with her during the interval and ignored me and didn't introduce us.
So, when I start asking about her what is her name etc, tonight, and pointing out how can he apologise to her but not apologise to his wife for the shit he has put me through for two years, he starts going defensive, I say why are you being like this. Only dogs smell there own shit if they have something to hide.
What I am cross about this time, is the fact that he has apologised to her for being rude to her when we have had problems for two fucking years, he has got angry at me constantly over issues and refuses counselling and never said sorry about his behaviour, towards me but no no he can say sorry to this fucking tart after one hoo hah at a meeting.
I suggest something is possibly going on because he hasn't spoken with me since dinner tonight. However, he keeps denying that nothing has 'happened'.Yet tells me they have a meeting on their own once a week in a conference room and a phone call every fortnight.
I am awake at two am- can't sleep - so many things going on in my head which could be nothing but could be something.
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I am so cross. not upset this time fucking cross.
IreallyKNOWiamright · 19/06/2015 02:44
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