I've been reading about this online today, (bored at work!) and the theme seems to be, when a man withdraws from a woman, it's due to him feeling suffocated/stressed/needing time out and the thing us women need to do is not question it, not pursue him, not hassle or nag him, just wait patiently for him to decide he's ready to come out if his cave, when we should then welcome him with open arms and lots of love. Apparently, a needy, nagging woman will only make this worse, and could even lead him to falling out of love....!
Now, it strikes me that this seems very geared towards the man! I'm not sure if there's websites dedicated to men on how to deal with your 'emotional needy' woman to make her feel secure, loved and appreciated, but anyway......!
I know we all need our space, and it's healthy to spend time apart and that's all fine.....but do you think there's any truth in the theory of this? I feel annoyed by it, and feel it's really aimed at keeping the fellas happy, but wonder if there is actually a valid point being made here, about the differences between how a lot of men and women deal with emotional issues? I'm probably not making any sense, and rambling a bit, but really interested to hear what others think.....
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"When a man retreats into his cave....."
TwoNoisyBoys · 11/06/2015 22:15
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