How would you feel if the following happened in your relationship, throughout 2.5 years:
- You moved to live with your DP to take a job where he lived, and over a year later, you get a new job (much, much better one with a lot of extra pay), and your DP refuses to relocate because it would increase his commute to 45 minutes, up from 20 minutes, and he wouldn't be able to stay at the same gym as his friends?
- You discuss buying a place with you DP, only to find out that he has booked house viewings behind your back, with the intention to buy alone?
- You find that he spoke to friends/family about an overseas work opportunity, before speaking to you, on the basis that he 'didnt want to upset you until it happened.'
- At all times, your DP was loving, cooked for you, cleaned the house willingly, paid for more than his share of everything, de-frosted your windscreeen each morning in winter on his way to work, bought you surprise gifts, went out wherever you fancied at the weekends, etc. Ie was in all other ways kind and considerate.
Would you stay?