I've been seeing this guy for a few week, nothing serious just a friend with benefits type situation.
Obviously I kept it quiet from stbxh as he's abusive.
So my 'friend' stayed over last night and ex turned up out of the blue with the dc's to check on me because I've been quite down lately and drinking alot. I told him he couldn't come in and I'm not a good liar and stbxh asked if I had a bloke there so I had to admit it. So he royally kicked off saying I was a fucking bitch and I'm not prioritising the dc's and I'm this terrible person. I would never introduce my friend to the dc's, they are with stbxh until 6, so I thought it was ok to have him here.
I've had loads of abusive texts and calls off ex and he just told me to fuck off with such venom on the phone that I'm really worried about drop off. He has been violent before.
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STBXH is kicking off about my FWB and I'm quite scared.
weedinthepool · 04/05/2015 16:47
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