To cut long story short my ex left me properly when I just coming up to 36 weeks. He'd been needing 'space' on off since I was 28 weeks pregnant. But would always be fine again and say sorry then we'd be ok.
In the end I just said to him straight up what was going on cause I couldn't take it anymore. He admitted that he didn't know what he wanted. He said couldn't help how he felt but right now didn't want to be with me.
During the weeks before he admitted this he'd tell me to leave him for a few days I wouldn't hear anything from him. He would go out do want he wanted not ask about he baby once and I just cried. Before this he'd always go on about how we'd be a family and stuff so it was a shock.
He hasnt saved any money for the baby or bought it anything. He only gave me £200 to buy things I got everything else myself. He is 24 but still lived at home where as I'm 20 but have had my own place since I was 16.
He was good at the start but then starting going out every weekend Friday and Saturday. He wouldn't come home till 10am sometimes. He has basically blanked me or gave me abuse when I did try to contact him about the baby he says he's only concerned about he baby but he hasn't shown it. So I just left him and stopped trying.
Now I got a phonecall today asking if we could meet up and talk tomorrow and I'm not sure what to do? I'm due literally in a few days and I don't know what there is left to talk about.
should I meet him or just stop all contact except for things with the baby obviously. I'd never stop him seeing his son but I would never make him see him if he didn't make an effort.
I was really heartbroken at the start when this all happened but I think the baby has gave me strength. I don't want to put the baby through anything else but I also wanted a family so much.
I do love my ex but I'm just not sure after how he's been what I should do...
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My ex left me at 36 weeks pregnant now he wants to meet what should I do?
ADavid94 · 14/04/2015 15:01
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