ok so its 7.30am the kids are in bed and my partner has just left for work and im glad after spending 2 weeks hauled up in the house playing referre and feeling like the worst mother in the world!!
my partner of 6 years and my daughter just dont get on ( more on his part) shes going through the stroppy little madame stage but hes always on her case he only ever seems to speak to her to tell her off shes started spending literally all her time at home in her room, we have 2 kids 2 and 4 together and then my 10 year old who calls him dad we have been together since she was 3 1/2 she know hes not her father but has always been dad she has no contact with her real dad. but he seems to treat her like shes not part of the family all the time and its breaking my heart ive been looking for houses to rent and am serious considering just taking all 3 of them and leaving as i have 3 kids not 2 my heart is torn though as he is a fantastic dad to the other 2 and they absolutely dote on him. im not entirely sure i even love him any more i mean how can i when hes making my daughter feel so shitty. shes started acting out at school and shes finding it really hard to socialize with other kids as she thinks they are always judging her but he dosnt see any of this as his fault everything is always my daughters fault. hes got a really bad anger issue and flys off the handle at the slightest thing when ive told him that im leaving he tells me to go then but im not taking the kids we have a joint tenancy and he would refuse to leave as most of the stuff in the house he has bought due to me giving up work to look after his kids i just feel so lousy and like the worst mother in the world how do i get us out of this rut and what damage would it do to the other 2 babys if i take them away from their dad :(
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sat here in tears what do i do for the best my partner and my daughters just don't get on!!!
yummmymummy1 · 05/01/2015 07:44
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