Met a man online and had two daytime dates. My gut is telling me this man is trying way too hard. The kind of compliments I have had daily for two weeks in text are...your perfect, Your beautiful, I'm so privileged to of met you, Your so photogenic you could be a model, I want to make you happy, Missing you, thinking about you all the time.
We have had two dates totalling 7 hours.
I'm not bad looking but his comments are like he is using flattery for what reason? Saying I'm perfect when he doesn't really know me.
On our first date he said quite a few times "your so beautiful" kissed my hand, held my hand and I suppose I felt a little uncomfortable but I'm not naturally a touchy feely person and not use to a man giving me constant compliments.he is
Talking about future things we can do together. And the random messages like "your beautiful" feel like he's feeding them to me to keep me hooked.
I would love to believe that this man is head over heels for me but my sensible side says its all BS and he's probably got a few online women on the go with the sweet talk.
Anybody got any advice, experiences with this kind of ott flattery 24 hours?
Red flags?
If he's trying to get in my knickers he's putting alot of effort into it.
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