My beautiful mum has a horrible cancer prognosis of 4 weeks. She has been ill for a year and now much much worse. Im torn between spending all my time with her, or with my young dd who needs me, and also have to work full time as cannot afford to lose my job. Im at breaking point. My dh lost his dm 8 years ago suddenly, they were close when young but not as adults. He was upset for a brief period then never really spoke again. He and my dm are very close, or so i thought. I am finding him really really unsupportive how when i need him more than ever. Tells me to cheer up constantly, how miserable i am, stop crying (not in a nice way btw) now is asking are we going to his family for Xmas - 200 miles away. I fo t know what to do. I have tried telling him i need him to be there and ge is hurting me but he just gets angry. What do i do?
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