I always read the fab threads on here but have never posted before. I'm hoping for some advice / words of wisdom from others who've gone through hard times.
A few months ago, my mum passed away totally out of the blue. We hadn’t spoken for the previous eight months because she didn't approve of my choice of partner (she could clearly see what i couldnt!)
A week after the funeral, I discovered that my partner, who I lived with and had recently got engaged to, was having an affair with a work colleague (we all work in the same place). I wanted to work things out but partner didnt and we split up. I now find myself alone (no DCs) living in my dead mother’s house.
I am racked with guilt over the loss of contact with her and overwhelmed with grief at these two huge losses in my life. I'm an only child, my dad died 10 years ago and I feel so alone. I cant stop crying, have lost a ton of weight, am addicted to smoking and everything just seems pointless. And I also now have to face my ex and OW and their new relationship at work. Advice please Mumsnetters..
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Bereaved and dumped. How can I get through this?
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elsabelle · 06/12/2014 15:10
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