I was dumped a while ago and thought I would give OD a try. So far, I have been on three dates with one guy who just suddenly started ignoring me. I then got chatting to another guy, we were texting and chatting in the phone for about two weeks and then met on Tuesday. The date went well as far as I was concerned and we has a snog. However, the more I think about it, the more I think that maybe he isn't actually that keen. His texts (instigated by me) have been friendly but when I said I wouldn't mind meeting up again, it was ignored.
He hasn't text today but he is on a 6-6pm shift. I know he's at work but my way of thinking is a text takes 10 seconds and if you were keen you'd bother.
In the past, when I've been asked on a second date, the guy has usually asked either at the end of the first date or called/texted the next day. I am pretty sure he's not interested but would like to know for certain without seeming like I'm harassing him.
I am not planning on texting today but do you reckon I should get in touch in a day or two if I have heard nothing or leave it? I bloody hate dating
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ScrambledEggAndToast · 20/11/2014 14:07
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