I don't know if this is the right place to ask about this but it is kind of affecting me and DH.
Three months ago my MIL unexpectedly died leaving FIL feeling very lonely. He doesn't have any friends (his life centred around work and MIL) and the only family he has is my DH.
FIL is struggling to be alone in the house he shared with MIL and it is also far too big for just him.
He has made a suggestion to DH that we sell our house, he sells his house and we join finances to get a big house between us. He said he will have the modern day version of a 'Granny Flat' so he completely has his own space (I don't actually know much about Granny Flats) and he said he will not impose on mine and DH's space at all.
My DH feels very sad for his dad, obviously, so is thinking seriously about FIL's offer, taking my thoughts into account too.
I get on very well with FIL but I don't know if I want to live with him - even if he does have his own space. He implied that with the set up he imagines (an attached granny flat) he will have his own living room, own bathroom and own kitchen and that it won't really be as though we all live together.
Has anyone else ever been in a situation like this? Both my DH and FIL are grieving and I don't want to be the one who says no if they feel they need to be close to each other.
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