Hi,
I know this might sound a bit silly but I've got a friend who recently separated from her husband and she's got two kids. We were having a conversation today where I think I may (maybe with good reasoning) put my foot in.
Ever since she left her DP she's been complaining that no one will ever want her now because she is a single mum. I then went on to say, that she will but it will take some time and most single men w/o kids don't really want to date anyone with kids. Is this right or wrong?
Also, I think that men tend to find single mums as an "easy target" and therefore you can get a lot of losers come your way. I'd like to know, does it matter to men whether a woman has kids or not as long as he loves her and then the children come as a package. Personally, if I ever got divorced I wouldn't care whether I had one child or 10 kids because bottom line is your children are your blood. Men will come and go but your kids will never leave you, so why care if someone accepts you or not...you already have the most precious gift in the world.
Any one found love after having 2,3,4....kids?
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kikewblue · 21/06/2014 01:55
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