so am new to online dating. been chatting to a few guys.
one in particular was really friendly and seemed sweet and fun.
he sent me his number and my phone found him on Facebook thru the friend finder tool. so I had a look at his profile and it all seemed to match what he had told me.
then for some reason I thought I would google his full name... which I got from Facebook and his home town etc. it came up with a load of links to newspapers about him being convicted of possession of child porn images and beastiality and of stealing the identity of a 13 year old girl and going on sex sites etc.
he got a community order and put on the sex offenders register and banned from the town he told me he used to live in.
I am 100% sure it is him and text him saying sorry I wasn't interested in a relationship at the moment. and he text back saying "you found out"
point is though that I am now exhausted wondering what could have happened if I hadn't felt the urge to do my research? I have 3 kids who could have met him... it doesn't bear thinking about.
now feeling a mixture of horror and relief!
just wondering. .. is it standard to do your homework like this when online dating cos I am so glad I did
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terrified after finding truth about potential online date
whitedoorbell · 29/03/2014 00:47
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