Feeling a bit too sensitive for AIBU.
Me and DP have a 7 week old DS. He's out the house at work 5 days a week from 7 am and gets home at 4.30 pm. However most weeks he spends one night a week playing snooker/golf and getting home at around 7 pm - wish he'd come home earlier but don't want to be 'controlling'.
DS is a very fussy, colicky baby and can cry and scream for hours on end and nothing you do can make it better :( I find it very hard to cope with sometimes.
Today DP went out to work at 7 am and then went straight to play golf after work and then after that went straight to football. He's still not home and said he'll be home between 10.30 and 11. DS has been screaming for about 3 hours now. I am exhausted - he's been fussing on and off all day. I just wanted DP to come home and look after him for a bit so I could sleep. He refused to come home, saying this is the 'one chance he gets to do what he loves'. I never get a break as DS is EBF and a bottle refuser. I am finding it very hard to cope tonight.
Is it acceptable for DP to be out for 15 hours and refuse to come home when asked? Or do I need to get a grip?
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Would you think this is acceptable?
Slh122 · 11/03/2014 21:57
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