DP doesn't see the point of it and is just not a touchy feely person in general. I do get that.
But cuddles, hand holding etc is really important to me, I feel held at arms length without it.
I've spent so long just dealing with the fact hat DP doesn't like it, and trying to come to terms with it not happening, but it's really getting me down. I realised last night that I can't remember the last time we had a little cuddle after going to bed, before going to sleep. Every night I suggest it and get told 'not tonight'.
We still have regular sex so it's not to do with that, it's just the little things.
How easy is this to deal with? Should I just accept that it's not going to happen or should I push the issue? It seems so petty to have such a serious talk about cuddles but it's really getting me down.
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Compromising on expectations for physical affection?
MsMarvel · 02/03/2014 19:29
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