I am at the end of my tether with dp.
I work 30 hours to his 37 yet I do all the night wakings with ds, all the early mornings, even if he gets up and leaves me in bed (rare) I still have to deal with ds until about 7.30/8 when he will have been awake from 6.
He doesn't pull his weight around the house, I do at least 95% of the cooking and housework even when he was out of work for 3 months I was still coming home and doing it.
We agreed that he could spend the evenings doing his hobby as long as he waited until 8pm when all of the kids are in bed but he keeps creeping off earlier and earlier.
Because of his hobby which he does each evening he is too tired to have any kind of sex life. We've not had sec in a month because he only has the energy in the morning when of course all the kids are about.
So I have had enough and think I would be better off on my own with the kids but don't know how to end it. I don't want a huge drama with me kicking him out into the street with his bags packed. We have a ds together so want it to be as amicable as possible.
Also am I being selfish to end it, he is not abusive and things aren't horrible, should I put up for our ds sake? I know hes not perfect but then who is.
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NachoAddict · 02/03/2014 09:17
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