I am in my early thirties and am feeling increasingly scared of the future. I have no family other than my (wonderful) parents but when they are gone it will just be me, unless I have children. The idea of being alone in the world with noone to love or to love me scares me so much but at the same time I have a bunch of health conditions that I think might make child rearing very difficult. To top it all off I am an introvert (something which I have only recently realised because I am outgoing and confident and have a lot of friends). Thus I feel I really need a lot of time alone and the idea of having to be around people every evening sounds awful. Did anyone else feel this way and go on to have kids? Is it different when they're your family? In some ways I think I'd be a good parent. I'm a nice person and kind and caring and I'm not judgemental over stupid things. But when I read on here about yet another man who's just packed up and left and become a part time McDonald's dad because he couldn't handle family life I do wonder if that would be me. Being a part time mum would suit me fantastically but I know it isn't really an option. Has anyone made parenting with a similar personality type work? Or would it just be really selfish to have kids? I'm single so this isn't a choice I'm facing at the moment and might never be but I feel I need to find some clarity.
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Fellow introverts and people who like being alone: how did you cope when you had children?
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