Previous thread here
Briefly, my DP and I have been working on our relationship after I found out that he had been on dating sites, had a fake facebook profile, had a sexting relationship with a woman for (I'm pretty sure) all of our relationship and had issues surrounding his use of porn in lieu of a healthy sex life. I found all this out when our DS was 3 weeks, he is now 8 months.
The other night my DP stopped sex to have a wank over images of women. (More on this in the above thread).
We've had the chat tonight. I told him I meant it and I wanted us to split up, having almost come close a few times over the past 7 months.
We have agreed to try and spend as much time as possible apart and take turns spending time with our Son.
We have a joint tenancy, neither of us can afford to leave as of yet and neither of us has anywhere to stay in the mean time. We are expected to receive a large sum of money in roughly 3-6 months time, which we will use to go our separate ways.
I don't know how I am supposed to do this. How do I try and get over what has happened when I still have to see him everyday? I'm so disappointed that my DS is going to have separated parents, I didn't want that for my baby. It was my biggest hope that I would have a stable family home for my children.
I'm terrified of what the future holds for me and my DS. I don't even know if I can afford to live on my own.
I'm so sad. I love him to pieces but I just can't keep feeling so humilated. How am I supposed to get over the father of my child? The man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with?
How the fuck do I do this?
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We've broke up but have to live together for the next 6 months.
HappyGoLuckyGirl · 21/02/2014 21:06
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