My husband is glued to his technology - always has been.
For various reasons my self esteem is very low at the moment.
I decided to look at his iPad when he was out. Not because I don't trust him -because I do.
Actually I'm not really sure why I looked.
Anyway dh is a sahd to our LO, and neither of use have loads of friends. But because dh attends groups with out LO he has made friends with a mummy there! they meet for coffee once a week! and occasionally go to soft play etc together (our LO s are similar ages) I have met her once when we out and about together. She is younger than me and dh and seems nice enough.
Anyway, I went onto DBS Facebook account and saw that she is the person he chats to most on fb. I had a look at their conversation.
I am ashamed that I ever did it!
I saw a few things that have made me feel sick. (As I said my self esteem is very low right now and so I'm probably over reacting)
Dh told he has big news, she asked if I was pregnant (we are ttc but haven't told anyone) he replied - lol! No you have to have sex for that.
Now we do have sex! About 2-3 times a week - he always seemed happy with this but now I'm wondering is this not enough?? Or was it supposed to be a funny comment??
Also he has discussed having another baby with his friend and said he is not sure about it but that it's going to happen anyway..... Not what he said to me!! If anything he is more keen than me to have another child.
I'm > 35 so having another baby is not a certainty! I'm wondering now if that was just a throwaway comment too?
I wish I'd never looked at his iPad in the first place. It's made me feel so low! Can he not discuss these things with me?? I have no one in RL I can discuss this with. I am very shy, struggle to make friends and am at work all week so I dont meet anyone new to make friends with. I feel very lonely right now.
I'm not really sure what I am asking here to be honest.
I know I should have minded my own business and not been snooping! How do I talk to dh about this? Do I own up that I snooped?
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