So my ex had an affair for a year. During that time I became depressed because our relationship was awful (I now know why!). But our family time still was great. My ex was never the best husband, but we had this amazing friendship and contentment.
After our split we tried counselling, he then withdrew and strung me along. And continued his friendship with the OW.
After too much effort on my part and nothing from him, in fact he was a bit dismissive, along with a number of pathetic arguments, we naturally went our own way.
Seven months after our split I go to London to meet a friend and meet a chap on a night out. Obviously the two hours train ride made me think it would just be a bit of fun, but it's actually turned in to a bit more and I'm having feelings for him. Despite the distance we keep in regular contact and know so much about one another. He's made me so very happy. He made me see my ex in a different way.
That is until a few days ago something happening in the family that brought us closer together. It didn't make my feelings for him change, but it has his. Now he's asked if we could spend more time together as he's missed me a lot. I said that things are different now for me. He then said sorry, shouldn't have brought it up.
I think this is his way of saying he wants me back?? Thing is what do I do??
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Ex (who cheated) wants me back after I've moved on
1983mummy · 06/12/2013 15:30
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