FYI I don't have children (yet!) I just respect your opinion, Mumsnetters!
I started chatting to C online six months ago. We met after 2 months when he flew from London to Edinburgh to meet me. On our first weekend together, he made it clear that he wanted to marry me. He said the most amazing things, he was so complimentary and loving.
We got engaged 2 months after that. I handed in my notice at work, got tenants into my flat and moved to be with him. I have been here six weeks now and it has been awful! He has just started a new job and the agreement was we would move into a rented flat together near his new work. This hasn?t happened though and I am stuck most days alone in his house in a small village whilst he rents a single room. I can?t look for work as I don?t know where we?re going to be. I should say though, that his job is far more highly paid than mine. He says he doesn?t want to rent somewhere until after six months because his new job isn?t that secure.
He hasn?t been very affectionate at all ever since I moved. I pointed this out and he seemed very shocked and asked why I hadn?t said anything sooner. I have had a good talk with him and he does admit to having doubts although he insists he ?really loves me?. He hates the fact that I often drink too much wine and so I have recently knocked that on the head.
I am due to go on holiday with my parents in 2 weeks for one week and it is my thirtieth birthday when I get back. (He is 35). I can?t obviously move back to my flat as it has tenants in it and I can?t afford the mortgage with no job. I can, however, move back in with my parents in Edinburgh!
Do you have any advice? Many thanks.
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Kirsten1983 · 07/07/2013 16:25
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