Hi
I'll be straight to the point here
DP gets 2 missed calls last night from a female work friend, we didn't see it till this morning.
I asked why she would be ringing At 12 at night so he texted her asking that
He got a text back saying because we thought you were going to (a bar in town)
DP then decides to tell me that they were trying to make him go for a drink after he finished work at 10 but h told them no.
He then rang the work friend and said why are you ringing me I told you I wasn't coming and she said but said you were (his boss)
I don't know why he feels the need to lie, I had dinner waiting and he knew this so I went to bed at 10.30 after waiting up and put dinner in the fridge.
After he rang her I messages her on Facebook and asked her what itwasall about as he was lying to me and she said that after they went out for a Indian they thought he was going to the bar.... He failed to tell me he was going out for a meal with work friends.
I wouldn't have mindedbut the fact he lied to me about going out after work has upset me, he knew I had made him dinner.
I had a long day with the children and could have done with a early night. Why would he need to lie!! He said he's sorry. He also said he think that this work colleague fancies him and he said his boss thinks so too so I'm thinking he's got something else to hide.
Apparent ly he has been afew times for a Indian after work and has never told me and said if I knew I wouldn't have liked it? I have never not let him do what he wants why does he need to lie!!
I've since messages work friend asking if anything else is going on and she won't reply! I don't get it!
Please let me know your opinions
:)
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DP lied to me
beautybox2 · 09/06/2013 19:51
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