I've talked in here a bit about my brother before. How he is almost 30, but despite having a really good job still lives at home with my parents. He treats the house like a hotel and my mum like a personal maid/servant whatever you want to call it.
He cannot do anything for himself she does all his washing, makes and changes his bedding and makes doctors and dentist appointment for him. When he had a bump in his almost brand new sports car she phoned the insurance company for him etc. He can't even put his dishes in the bloody dishwasher himself, she does that for him as well! When people ask why he still lives at home he says he can't afford it but in reality he just has it too good. His bedroom is like a luxury penthouse with large plasma screen TV, his own broadband Internet, X Box, Wiii and every other mod con going. He wears designer clothes and he and his girlfriend eat out most evenings, they are always going on weekend away and on holiday.
You cannot say anything remotely negative about my brother to my mum because she jumps down your throat and accuses you of picking on him. My dad sees my brother as a bit if a loser, but he knows better than to speak up and say anything about it.
So that's the background. One day last year my brother went out and bought a puppy without my parents permission. They had always maintained they didn't want a dog, but he ensured them he'd walk it himself etc. Which he did for a few weeks until the dog got too big and started chewing everything in sight. You can probably guess what happened next. He now rarely bothers with the dog and its my dad who walks him.
The best part is when my parents go away on holiday they, or rather my mum, now expects me to go to the house and let it him out, feed him etc because they know my brother won't do it. I don't mind doing this as I am an animal lover and have a dog of my own, but it pisses me off. Last night I went around to let him out for a wee and the dog had chewed up a dining room chair because he was probably bored and felt ignored. No sign of my brother. The house was deserted. He finally came back and I pointed out that you can't leave a dog on its own for ours on end because its cruel. He went on to whinge about how the dog "barks all the time" and "chews everything" and I pointed out that's because its what dogs do, and he's probably bored and needs some attention.
My brother is completely immature, spoiled and irresponsible. Its not his fault it's my mums for making him that way. I just really need to vent about it, I know if I say what I really think ill just get a mouthful of abuse off him.
Arghhhhh!!
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My brother is a mummy's boy and complete loser
CelticPixie · 04/05/2013 11:53
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